Been There

LAST UPDATED · MAY 27, 2026

Privacy Policy.

How Been There collects, uses, and protects your information when you use the app and beenthere.social.

What we collect

Account information

When you create an account, we collect your name, email, username, and birthday. If you sign in with Apple or Google, we receive your name and email from those providers.

Phone number

If you choose to enable SMS-based features (such as phone-number sign-in, two-factor verification, or SMS plan invites), we collect your mobile phone number. Phone numbers are only collected with your explicit consent at the moment you opt in inside the app — we do not collect phone numbers from any other source.

Location

With your permission, we collect your location while you are actively using the app, to show nearby venues and verify check-ins. We do not track your location in the background.

Calendar

With your permission, we read your device calendar to import dining reservations into your planner. This data stays on your device and is never uploaded to our servers.

Usage data

We collect how you interact with the app — venues you view, check-ins, saves, and search queries — to personalize recommendations and improve the product.

Smart search queries

When you use smart search, your query is sent through our servers to Anthropic, the provider of the language model that powers it. Anthropic does not train on Been There queries. We log queries on our servers to improve search quality.

Photos

Photos you upload for check-ins or your profile are stored securely in our cloud. You can delete them any time from your profile.

Plans and the discovery feed

Plans you build are private by default — only you can see them. If you publish a plan or share its link, the plan title, venues, times, and responses become visible to anyone with the link and may appear in the in-app discovery feed alongside editor picks and plans from members you follow. Editor plans are labeled as staff; member plans appear under the author's username. You can switch any plan back to private from its detail screen, which removes it from the feed and breaks any shared link.

How we use your information

We use the information we collect to:

SMS messaging

Been There operates an SMS messaging program through Twilio to deliver phone-number sign-in codes, two-factor verification codes, and plan-related notifications (for example, when a friend RSVPs to a plan you created).

How you opt in

You opt in to SMS by entering your phone number inside the Been There iOS app — either during sign-up, when enabling two-factor authentication, or when adding a phone number from Settings → Account. Before submitting your number, the app shows the following consent language:

"By providing your phone number, you agree to receive SMS messages from Been There for verification codes and plan notifications. Message frequency varies. Message and data rates may apply. Reply STOP to unsubscribe or HELP for help."

We do not collect phone numbers through web forms, third-party lists, or any source other than the in-app opt-in described above.

Message types and frequency

Cost

Message and data rates may apply, depending on your mobile carrier and plan. Been There does not charge you for SMS messages.

Opt-out and help

You can stop receiving SMS at any time by replying STOP to any message from us. You will receive a final confirmation message and no further texts. To re-subscribe, reply START. For help, reply HELP or email hey@beenthere.social.

Carrier disclaimer

Carriers are not liable for delayed or undelivered messages. Supported carriers include AT&T, T-Mobile, Verizon, and most regional U.S. carriers.

Sharing of mobile information

We do not sell, rent, or share mobile phone numbers or SMS opt-in consent with any third party for marketing or promotional purposes. Phone numbers are shared only with our SMS delivery provider (Twilio) for the sole purpose of sending the messages described above, and only as needed to operate the Service.

How we share your information

We do not sell your personal information. We share only:

Data retention

We retain account information as long as your account is active. You can request deletion at hey@beenthere.social.

Data security

TLS in transit, encryption at rest, secure authentication, and row-level security on our database.

Your rights

Children

The Service is not intended for children under 13. We do not knowingly collect personal information from children under 13.

Changes to this policy

We may update this Privacy Policy from time to time. Material changes will be reflected by updating the "Last updated" date.

Contact

Questions? Write to hey@beenthere.social.